Hannah Claire Shi Lin

Monday, December 15, 2008

Hoping for a Baby

Miles and I met our social worker a couple of weeks ago, then yesterday afternoon, she came to our house to meet Chip and my parents. She talked to us about the process of adoption, and told us the hard truth about the conditions that many Chinese orphans live in. It was so difficult for me to hear, but I needed to hear it. Because of what we heard about the harsh and horrendous life those children have, Chip and I have decided to request a younger child. Before, we had wanted an 18-month to 24-month old, but now we want as young as we can get, so that our child will have to endure those conditions for as little time as possible.
I'm very excited about the prospect of getting a baby! For a while I resisted the idea, but lately, even before our social worker's home visit, my motherly instinct started kicking in again and I found myself wanting to know my second child as a baby, to have those baby pictures to look back on and to have those baby memories. Of course, it is up to God what age child we actually get, but I am praying for a baby now and I so look forward to doing the baby stuff a second time around (well, except for maybe the changing diapers part!).
Please keep us in your prayers as we continue on our journey. We are now starting to really get the paperwork together and I'm beginning to feel a little overwhelmed. But with God's strength, we'll make it through.

Friday, October 24, 2008

Prayers Needed

Yesterday I heard the sad news that my cousin and her husband decided to terminate their agreement with their adoption agency. I know this was a very hard decision for them to make, and I think everyone involved is heartbroken. Please keep them in your prayers as they deal with this great disappointment in their lives.

Monday, October 6, 2008


We raised enough money to send in our first contract fee for the adoption on Friday!! We're so excited about this, because it means that now things will start moving a little. Now we're waiting to set up our first home study, and in the meantime, we're scheduling physicals and immunizations, working on our autobiographies and getting passports, etc. We'll have a mountain of paper work to get together (called a "dossier") over the next several months, which will then be sent to China.

Please continue to keep us in your prayers about the adoption. God has blessed us so much already in the adoption process and we pray that He will continue to do so.

Sunday, August 24, 2008

A Chinese-Inspired Day

Chip has always had a love for Asian cultures, and now that we are going to adopt from China, I am beginning to share that love. I never thought it would happen, but now I'm absolutely fascinated with anything Asian, particularly Chinese, of course. The fact that Chip and I now have another common interest is just one of the few ways this adoption has already brought us closer.

Since we are saving for the adoption, we've started looking for things to do around DFW that are free or low-cost. While doing an internet search yesterday morning, I came across the Crow Collection of Asian Art, which is a museum in the art district of downtown Dallas. I couldn't believe it when I found out that admission is free!! I was so excited to tell Chip about it, and when he got up, we got ready and headed to Dallas.

It's hard to describe how I felt going to this museum, or how I feel anytime I encounter a new Asian-related experience. Lately, Chip and I can't get enough Chinese food, and are always on the lookout for Chinese things. It's as if these things somehow make us feel closer to China and our daughter; if we can't go to China right now and get her, then we'll do everything we can to feel connected to her, even if it is in such a small way.

The museum was wonderful! The current first-floor exhibit is all Chinese art, most of it centuries old, mostly sculpture, and a few ink drawings. The next floor has more sculpture, and a central room where we were invited to come in and learn about Chinese lion dances. We went in and watched as two young Chinese Americans told us about how the lions are made for parades and parties, and then they demonstrated how to put on the lion costume and how it is operated to perfom the dances. Then they invited the children to come and get in the costumes and Miles had a ball! What a wonderful learning experience for him!

We then got to see an amazing exhibit of work by Chinese photographers who documented the changes Chinese culture has been going through, and the contrast between the modern and the ancient.

The highlight of the day was when we paid a visit to a 73-year-old caligraphy artist back down on the first floor. We learned his name is Thomas Wu, and that he came to America from China when he was 17 1/2 . He was such a joy to talk with. He asked us what he could write for us, and we said "family". So wrote with his big caligraphy brush the Chinese character for "family" on an 8 1/2 x 11 sheet of paper. He then asked us what we were going to do with it, and when we told him we wanted to frame it and hang it on our wall at home, and that we are going to adopt a little girl from China, he said he wanted to write something else for us, something that you would actually find hanging in a traditional Chinese home. We were delighted, and watched as brought out a large roll of paper and with beautiful, artistic strokes, wrote 4 characters stacked, and told us the translation, in his own words: "Welcome all the good stuff and receiving fortune." After he gave it to us, he pulled out some more paper from the roll and said he wanted to do another one for us. This time, the translation was, "Home of peaceful and harmonious." We were so touched, because he seemed to be wishing us all the best of blessings in our family. Then he went on to ask us if Miles was 4, and if he would be starting pre-k soon. We answered "yes," and he proceeded to pull out another sheet of paper and wrote the Chinese characters for "kindergarten," translated as "young, naive garden." What a pleasure it was to meet this sweet man.

"Welcome all the good stuff and receiving fortune."

We ended our day with meal at a Chinese restaurant back in Denton. We had bought Miles a pair of children's chopsticks at the museum gift shop, and he ate his dinner with them proudly. What wonderful little experiences our decision to adopt from China has brought to us, and we look forward to the many more we will have in the years to come.

Saturday, August 23, 2008

A Prayer Answered

This past Sunday night we found out my cousin, Paula, and her husband were inspired by us to adopt a little girl from China too! I'm sure they didn't know it when they made their decision, but I had prayed that someone in our family would do this, so that our little Hannah would have a Chinese cousin! God is so good to us; so often has He listened to our prayers and granted them!

I ask for your prayers for my cousin and her family along their adoption journey as well. It is so exciting to be experiencing this at the same time with them. I just wish we lived closer. Another blessing has come out of this, though. My cousin and I have been out of touch for a few years now, and this has opened a line of communication for us again! Praise the Lord!

Friday, August 22, 2008

Our Long Journey Has Begun...

A little over 2 months ago, Chip and I made the decision to adopt a little girl from China. Since then, we've done lots of research, picked an adoption agency (Great Wall China Adoption) and just this past Monday, we sent in our application. Two days later, I got a call from Great Wall in which they informed me our application has been approved! We are now working on getting the funds for the first contract fee, and it looks hopefull that we'll have it in 2 weeks to a month!

We are just so excited about this long journey we will make! If you haven't already read the story behind why we decided to adopt, you can read it on our fundraising website, http://www.bringhannahhome.org/our_story.htm. Needless to say, this is one of the most challenging situations we've ever been in, but feel the struggle of raising money and the long wait will be more than worth it when we finally see our daughter for the first time.

We ask for your prayers as we start this journey: That God will guide us in making the right decisions and that He will give us patience and strength during the next few trying years.